Transsexual dating and the sexual roles

Posted on November 25, 2013
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Well of course this does not apply to all transsexual women for there are pre-op, post-op, and non-op transsexuals. And I do not wish to offend transsexual women or anybody through my article. This these exist and it is just a mere good to know article specially to men who are interested of dating a transsexual women or already dating.  It is quite awkward and funny to talk about this but admit it, it is interesting and also exciting. I have always been wanting to get more intimate and tackle about sex or making love (as what I prefer to call it) which is one of the most essential part of a relationship, and being sexually compatible is one factor that would help you build a happier relationship. Few online transsexual dating sites include sexual roles as part of your profile information. So what is this sexual role all about? This sexual roles would somehow determined if you are sexually compatible with the transsexual women that you are dating with.  So take a deep breathe and lets dive into these various sexual roles.

Three Sexual roles in transsexuals dating

Top

This role is very common to the gentlemen. Being top means, you are the one who will penetrate your partner. If you choose top as your sexual role that means you are sexually aroused and pleased everytime you penetrate your partner. The penetration that I am talking about is when a male genitalia gets into the anus. This sexual role does not limit only to your male partner for there are transsexuals who are mostly non-op transsexuals prefers to be top but are very rare.

Bottom

Basically this is the opposite of top. If you are bottom then it is you who will be penetrated or will receive. When you are sexually pleased receiving your partners male genitalia through your anus then that means you are bottom. Regardless of position if you are the one being penetrated by your partner then you are bottom. This sexual role is very common to transsexual women, although there a few men who are sexually aroused and pleased being bottom but they are very few. Having a boyfriend who is bottom is not bad after all as long as you are top. Then that is an example of sexually compatible couple.

Versatile

This is a combination of being top and bottom. You are versatile when you are sexually please and satisfied whenever you are top or bottom. You are the type of person who is very flexible and wanted to penetrate your partner and being penetrated.

So those are the three sexual roles that usually apply in dating a transsexual. I believe that by understanding  what are these sexual roles all about will make your search even more easier.  Your sexual roles will not be the only reason why you fall for someone of course, But rather one of the few elements to make your relationship satisfying.

About the author

A transgender woman from the Philippines who believes, that understanding and accepting our multiple diversities with in transgender community would make it easier for the whole world to understand us.