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Why Transphobia shouldn’t Exist

Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

The world is ever-changing towards a more inclusive place. However, transphobia and transphobic people still exist. Today, you’re going to know as to why this word was created; and how such a semantic wreaks havoc towards humanity.

If you’re not interested in accepting people who are different from who you are, skip this article. However, if you’re here to learn how to make this world a better place, keep reading the definition of transphobia and everything that encompasses this evil word.

What is Transphobia ?

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Phobia is described as a feeling of aversion or extreme fear of something. This something could be in the form of people, places, experiences, etc. However, when it comes to transphobia, it’s a little bit more complicated.

Transphobia is a term that’s commonly used to describe people who HATE transgender individuals. Most of them aren’t just fearful of diversity. Some of them go as far as to wanting transgender people eliminated from the face of the earth.

These people are mostly known as transphobic.

What does transphobic mean?

Transphobic is used as an adjective to describe a person, experience, situation, etc. However, don’t use this word loosely because it’s unfair to mistake transphobia with ignorance.

Not all ignorant people are transphobic. Some are willing to learn but may say the wrong things from time to time. These are commonly the people who have a religious upbringing. However, some of them are open to understanding and acceptance.

Transphobia’s definition doesn’t manifest easily. Most people who choose not to date a trans individual aren’t transphobic. Others who don’t want to have sexual relations with trans people aren’t transphobic either.

7 Common negative attitudes of transphobic people

Please know that the list below won’t pinpoint a transphobic person out. However, these traits are what most transphobic people have in common. Take them with a grain of salt.

  1. discriminatory against trans individuals ;
  2. prejudiced against trans individuals ;
  3. have a strong belief that transgenderism is a choice ;
  4. believes that transgender people can be cured out of their gender identities ;
  5. doesn’t agree that transgender individuals should have the same rights as they do ;
  6. disgust for transgender people7. Wishes harm to trans individuals and more.

There are a plethora of transphobic traits. The list above is the most telling of a transphobic person. If you come across these people and you want to educate them on how negative an impact they’re making towards other people’s lives, keep reading.

Effects of Transphobia towards Transgender Individuals

Transphobia is something that’s innately irreversible. If a person is transphobic to the core, no amount of education could help this person. However, most people exhibiting transphobic traits are still open-minded.

By reading this part of the guide, you’ll be able to educate ignorant people of the repercussions of their oblivion.

More Depression

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Gender dysphoria already causes a transgender individual depression.

More than 50% of transgender teens think of taking their lives just to end the pain. These people are worthy and capable of serving the world.

However, some are taken away too early because of transphobia.

Denying a person of basic human rights and access to dignity can be crippling. Most transgender people go through this. Being bullied can be considered normalcy for trans individuals but not everyone is resilient enough for this kind of conundrum.

Inequality and Basic Human Rights

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Most people take inequality lightly.

These people have not experienced being denied of the most basic human rights such as studying, working, and let alone something as trivial as entering an establishment.

In various schools around the world, transgender people aren’t allowed to express their gender identity

Most companies don’t accept transgender people even if they’re equipped with the required knowledge and credentials. Many businesses don’t want transgender people stepping foot on their grounds even if they have the money to spend.

Added to that, transgender people are also shooed away from using a public bathroom. These things could be trivial to most until they experience it themselves.

The Devil

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Furthermore, the fear-mongering religious transphobic people paint trans individuals in such a bad light; that their existence seems to be of something that’s crafted by the devil himself.

Transgender people are not evil. Some are even religious. 

There are many evils in this world and it’s ridiculous to equate trans people to adulterers, thieves, rapists, abusers, murderers, and more.


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There are plenty of trans individuals who get disowned by their families.

Nothing can be more painful than having your parents and siblings cut ties with you.

This shouldn’t be happening just because the child chooses to be happy without hurting anyone.

If people were more accepting, transgender suicide rates won’t be as apparent as they are today.


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A lot of transgender people experience rejections.

Most cisgender men and women are not open to being in a trans-oriented relationship.

Because most people still don’t accept the fact that transgender women are women and transgender men are men, trans individuals are often put in the undateable box.

This is why My Transsexual Date was created. It’s the first decent transgender dating site that helps connect men and transgender women who are looking for love.



It should be of no surprise that just by being a transgender person, you could get killed

A lot of hate crimes done by transphobic people leads to death.

If you follow the news, you will be aware that the most gruesome murders are done because of violence towards transgender people.

Some of these murders have even made the headlines and caused multiple rallies.

Transgender people who have died from hate crimes

Countless lives have been taken away because of transphobia. It is a global situation that should be stopped. If transgender people are only deemed with nothing short of respect and tolerance, none of these crimes would have happened.

Jennifer Laude (Philippines)

Jennifer Laude

The death of 26-year-old Filipino trans woman Jennifer Laude became a media sensation. It has been covered by major TV stations and has flooded social media sites in the Philippines for weeks. Truly, if it were a film, it would’ve been a blockbuster.

However, it’s not the case. Her death was caused by United States’ 19-year-old Private First Class Joseph Scott Pemberton. Pemberton claimed that he killed Laude by strangulation from “self-defense” after discovering that she’s a transgender woman.

The sad thing is that the court of Olongapo Regional Trial Court decided to reduce the verdict from murder to homicide; citing mitigating circumstances including Laude not revealing her gender identity. They added that the action of Pemberton was only due to “passion and obfuscation”.

This tarnished the relationship between the US and the Philippines. Furthermore, the court reduced the sentence of Pemberton from 12 years to 10 years in jail. Transphobia still has no major repercussions and this is why its existence is still rampant these days.

Gwen Araujo (USA)

Gwen Araujo

The murder of Gwen Araujo may be one of the most gruesome transgender murders of all time. A movie was also made about her life and countless rallies have taken place after her death.

On the evening of October 3, 2002, Gwen Araujo went to a house party held by Jose and Paul Merel. In the party were their younger brother Emmanuel, Jaron  Nabors, Michael Magidson, and Nicole Brown.

The murder was committed by the men mentioned above after forcing Araujo to reveal her gender identity.

Other victims are Celine Walker, Tonya Harvey, Christa Leigh Steel-Knudslein, Roxana Hernandez, London Moore, and more.

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If you know anyone who’s experiencing abuse and you want to help, you may save a life by contacting the hotlines below.

Too many lives have already been lost. How much more are we going to take? It’s never too late to do the right thing. If you find it in your heart to stop these crimes, the best thing that you can do is to spread awareness. Share this article with your loved ones and educate them.

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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
Just a random ladyboy playing with makeup and skincare. Loves bacon and the operating table. I'm also the author of the dating guide book Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen. Know more ->

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