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How to Celebrate Valentine’s Day with your Transgender Girlfriend

Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

Apart from your anniversary, Valentine’s day is one of the very few days that your transgender girlfriend will expect sweetness from you. Count your lucky stars if you are not the romantic type.

For those of you who are having a little problem with expressing your love, keep reading. This guide will open your eyes to a lot of ways in saying “I love you” to the most important person in your life for this very special day.

Why Valentine’s Day is Important for Couples

To some people, celebrating this day can be quite cheesy. However, if you want to be sure to keep your transgender girlfriend happy, you must participate in this day. Most women in a relationship want to feel loved and coveted and so do men. Don’t miss the chance to do it even once a year through the help of Valentine’s day.

happy couple

What does Valentine’s Day Mean?

Valentine’s Day, also called Saint Valentine’s Day is celebrated every 14th of February. It was a western Christian feast day in honor of Christian martyr Saint Valentine before being associated with romantic love in the 14th and 15th centuries.

Origin of Valentine’s Day

Saint Valentine of Rome was said to restore the sight of his jailer’s blind daughter. But he was considered a martyr for ministering Christians who were persecuted by the Roman empire. This special day was established by Pope Gelasius I in AD 496 commemorating Saint Valentine’s death on February 14, AD 269.


It is not a public holiday but is widely celebrated around the globe. It’s a day when lovers or people who want to show their attraction to someone send gifts like greeting cards, cookies, chocolates, and more.

Long-distance Relationships

With the help of modern technology, Valentine’s day is not only for couples living together anymore. If your transgender girlfriend lives overseas, below are some examples of how you could celebrate Valentine’s day online.

trans women front of a laptop


You can easily find an online that will deliver to her place. Gifts can be in any form, as long as you know that she will be happy receiving it. You can try flowers, jewelry, chocolates, etc.

Other ideas can also be some stuff that she usually need for work. You may also ask her directly what she would like if you don’t want to take any chances. Yes, the surprise element will be gone but at the very least, you know she’s very happy with your gift.

How to Celebrate from Afar

Video calls are a must in order to do this. You can eat together while talking on cam. You may also dress up for the special day so she can see you in a different light. Don’t hold back from wearing that tux or suit. Make her feel like she’s the luckiest girl in the world.

Sadly, in some countries, video calls are not allowed. You may give her a voice call instead or you can simply solve this conundrum by installing a trusty VPN app on your phone.


If you are the more adventurous kind, why not surprise her with some sexy outfits? You can dress up as a sexy plumber, doctor, or whatever you feel like. Give her the fantasy that she deserves. Make her feel your intimacy on this special day.

Words also help a lot when long-distance relationships are involved. Affirm her that she is always in your mind and heart even if you are apart. You can even writer her a poem. Be creative with how you express your love from afar.

Furthermore, if you like playing instruments or singing, why not record a special performance just for her?

Living Together

Now that the odds are at your favor, you can get very creative with celebrating Valentine’s day. You can surprise her by picking her up at work or home. Don’t tell her about your plans for the day to be more romantic.

couple on a couch

Date Ideas

Because this feast is only celebrated in a day, it’s better for you to do everything close to home. There’s no point in traveling for long hours and missing this important day. There are many exciting places in your city that you should discover.

Some of the classics are restaurants, malls, or bistros. However, you can also take her somewhere by the lake or by the beach granted that you live close to those places. If you want to make this day extra special, you can take her to a state fair or a theme park.

Gift Ideas

If you are living together, you have many chances in making her truly happy. Why not buy the television that she’s been eyeing for your Netflix nights to be more exciting? You can also buy her some baking or cooking utensils if she is the domesticated type.

If you live with her, you already have an idea of what she is into. Now, if she is the more naughty and adventurous kind, you can spice up your Valentine’s day with a bang through the help of sex toys.

You’re both adults, there’s no need to feel coy about these pleasurable things. Just remember, if you are buying her a gift, be sure that it is FOR HER. Some men can be cruel when it comes to gifting. They buy a woman lingerie when they know that it’s more for them than for her.

Sex and Romance

If you are not normally the touchy type, this is the perfect day to give it all you’ve got. Give her the affection that deserves. Every woman deserves to feel loved by their partners on this very special day. Yes, work can eat a lot of time but always remember to save time for what truly matters to you.

You can easily earn money. Just give this day to her. It is not like she is asking for too much from you. Smother her with kisses. Tell her you love her. There is no such thing as doing the most when it comes to Valentine’s Day.

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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
Just a random trans woman playing with makeup and skincare. Loves bacon and the operating table. I'm also the author of the dating guide book Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen. Know more ->

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