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Keeping the fire ALIVE

Posted on July 26, 2019
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I know that it’s quite challenging to find a soul mate but you rose above the challenge and were able to turn your transsexual date into a girlfriend.  You thought that it’d end there but you were wrong, totally wrong.  Turns out, you’d need more than words and actual fuel to keep the fire alive in the relationship.  If you’re just knowing this now, I don’t blame you, I’ve been there before lol.
It’s like when you really wanted a pet as a kid and your parents decide to give you a goldfish which you nonchalantly flushed after it died with you neglecting it for other stuff.  So anyway, let’s head on to some tips on how to successfully keep the stokes of love burn hotter.

How to ask your transgender crush on a date

Posted on July 12, 2019
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As a former sex-worker and a transgender woman, I can get a little neurotic… well, paranoid, every time a guy asks me out on a date.  I always have the feeling of being only wanted for one thing and it usually includes a mattress… or a floor! Who knows what you’re into?  Alright Jacob, I’m not saying that I’m a prototype transgender woman when it comes to dating but I am a person with experiences and you may be able to get some key information from me and you’ll never know how much in common your crush and I have.

Let’s begin with the most vital part that can make or break your dream with your future transgender date

Qualities in Dating Transgender Women

Posted on June 28, 2019
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Today’s talk is about the qualities you must have in order to successfully date transgender women.  I’m not going to tackle superficial stuff like looks, salary, libido (although this is really something that I personally find important lol), and etc.  Moreover, I want to enlighten you about which qualities should be emphasized in order to make your relationship with your transgender date flourish and last.

Please take this with a grain of salt because some transwomen like me prefer the jerk and bad boy types so no matter how good of a catch you are, there are just some tastes that simply cannot be adjusted.

Let’s start with…

When to break up

Posted on June 14, 2019
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Not every relationship involves multiple persons. We should never neglect the relationship we have with ourselves if we truly want to achieve genuine happiness.  Today’s article will be less of transgender dating tips and more of when to break up with someone you’re not in love with anymore.

It’s safe to say that most of us have experienced a breakup and it sucks most of the time.  However, there are moments when enough is enough and we should just end things in order to keep our sanity.  I’m going to divide this article into 3 sections that may apply to what you’re currently going through which can help you to finally say YES… yes, I’m going to break up with you.

Starting Over Again

Posted on April 19, 2019
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Have you finally healed from your last relationship? Are you thinking of signing up on a transgender dating website because you’re more than ready to find the love of your life?  If so, please keep reading.

I know how I sounded like a seedy infomercial but I just wanted to be extra corny so I can grab your attention.  Most people find transsexual dating websites, or any other dating website, gimmicky and superficial.  They often think that dating websites are for bored people who aren’t looking for something serious.  On the contrary, transgender dating websites have been proven to be the best tool to be utilized in terms of finding a life partner.

Hear me out…

Transgender girlfriend change for the worse after Surgeries

Posted on February 22, 2019
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Have you been dating a transsexual woman for a long time but she suddenly changed after cosmetic surgery or sexual reassignment surgery?  To be honest, I think breast augmentation and SRS are both life-changing surgeries and I don’t want to speak for all transgender women out there but something has definitely changed in me for the first few months post my breast augmentation.

Let it be known that I was single when I had the surgery and this may not apply to your girlfriend.  However, I also noticed this especially from seeing the posts from my transgender friends who just had theirs done as well.

Kindly take this article with a grain of salt.

My Boyfriend was a Tranny Chaser

Posted on January 11, 2019
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Tranny Chaser is an offensive term coined to describe a person equivalent to a womanizer.  In transgender dating, there’s a high possibility that your boyfriend started out fantasizing by porn and have seen a lot of things.  There are only a few transgender women in the world and there’s a big percent that your man has never met one in person which urged him to discover the beauty of transgender women through paid cam sites and dedicated porn sites.

Evolution occurred and his hobby with his right hand (left if he’s different lol) turned to an experimental rampage on transgender dating websites and adult yellow pages.

Finally… he met YOU! The transgender woman of his dreams…

Transgender Dating DON’Ts

Posted on December 28, 2018
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Dos and don’ts are not just exclusive to transgender dating but I want to be more in-depth about the DON’Ts section of the lottery we all call dating.

There are numerous factors as to why is it seemingly that when we try to get to know someone, things suddenly fall apart.  Consider dating as an investment and every action and word you put out must be a seed for a lasting relationship to grow.