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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Just a random trans woman playing with makeup and skincare. Loves bacon and the operating table. I'm also the author of the dating guide book Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen. Know more ->

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How to know if your date is a USER

Users are everywhere.  They can be in the form of family, friend, and a lover.  You’re never really going to know what a person’s intentions are; time could only tell. Today, I’m going to share some signs on whether the person you found from a transgender dating site is just using you.

People you can find in Transgender dating sites

Today is not about finding a transgender date for you. It’s about what you can do and who you can meet apart from a life partner in a transgender dating website. I know that it may sound uninteresting to you but please hear me out.  I’ve met a lot of friends on dating websites and […]

Perverts in Transgender Dating Sites

There are perverts everywhere but I want to be specific and try to help you on how to determine if the guy who’s been messaging you in a transgender dating website just wants to get off on your expense.  There’s nothing wrong about being sexually in touch with yourself but if you’re a transgender who’s […]

Dating a Famous but Discreet man

Today is going to be an article solely for my trans sisters. Transgender dating is already a very small circle made smaller by dating sites.  Dating sites are the most accessible avenue and common ground of trans people and people who love them so it’s inevitable to be passed by popular personalities from time to […]

How to deal with Insecurities

“Jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, is such an evil thing” – Paris Hilton. This happens not only with transgender dating but dating in general.  I’m not the perfect person to give advice but since I’m a naturally jealous person, I think you’ll get some value about how I overcome it when I’m in a relationship. Please take […]

Questions not to ask your TG Date

We were all once novices in the world of transgender dating. Today, I’ve enlisted some questions in random order that you should avoid asking on the first conversation if you want to proceed to the next level. Everyone’s individuality varies in enormous degrees but just know that the tips here are applicable in general as […]

When your transgender date is Insecure

I think insecurity happens once in a while to everybody except Elizabeth Taylor or Mariah Carey (I love them). As a transgender woman, I have a LOT of insecurities.  Today, I’m going to be talking about how you can deal with your transgender date who’s battling her physical insecurities.  Puberty of a transwoman is different […]

Your hormonal transgender date

I’ve thought about this for about a hundred times before talking about it and the reality is… it happens. What happens exactly, Amanda? When hormones get the best of us transgender women. I am the same as your transgender date but I’m not sure if she is undergoing hormone replacement therapy.  If she is, keep […]

My transgender date loathes me

Nobody’s born with an arsenal of world knowledge. We all started from ignorance.  The very reason why schools were created is for us to learn. You really want to pursue your transgender date but you’ve said something out of ignorance that made her dislike you. What do you do now?

How to ask your transgender girlfriend to move in

So your transgender date magically turned into your girlfriend. You want to seal the deal somehow and move on to the next level. There are a lot of joys when it comes to living in with your partner. As a transgender woman, my perspective is coming from a “wifely” role lol.  I thoroughly enjoyed being […]