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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine is a transgender woman who has written about trans topics for over 10 years for My Transgender Date. She is an author who made it on Amazon’s best-seller list by writing 5 books on trans women’s relationships. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” peaked at #3 in the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. She started writing at the age of 10 and won a poetry contest in 4th grade which convinced her to pursue a career in literature. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman give her a unique perspective on trans topics.

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Beauty Tips for Trans Women from My Transgender Date COO

Inspiration comes from many places. However, when it comes to transitioning and beauty, we need something more concrete and relatable. Are you a transgender woman who has lost your confidence in the dating world or life in general? If so, it’s time to get to know more about Miss Maki Gingoyon. She’s the Co-founder & […]

All About National Coming Out Day

Many people choose to live in secrecy for discretion purposes. However, some do this as a form of survival. Sadly, in 2021, belonging to the LGBTQ+ community can still prove to be fatal, most especially in countries whereby same-sex relationships are criminalized by law. Today, you’re going to learn the importance of the National Coming […]

Resolving LDR Fights

Dating in the time of COVID-19 is a challenge. It’s also made even more so if you’re in a long-distance relationship. This is especially hard for couples who only get to meet once or twice a year and have been stopped from traveling for more than a year.

Why Some Trans Women Don’t Like Trans Dating Sites

When trans people explore their dating life, a trans dating website comes at the top of the list. It’s a no-brainer avenue in finding people who have no issues dating trans people. However, some trans women are a bit complicated. This may be perceived negatively or positively but before you make your judgment, you have […]

Transgender Dating on Tinder Experience

Love is always in the air but not the same can be said for transgender individuals. Trans dating is a bit more complicated because the oxygen of love seems to be blocked by some forcefield energy. This is why if you belong to the transgender community, or if you’re a trans woman, it’s very important […]

Transgender Dating Pandemic Edition

Dating is hard enough on its own yet here you are trying to cope with the COVID-19 pandemic while single. However, romance is still possible amidst the virus. Giving up on it is just another excuse for you to put love on the side. There’s no better time in finding your soulmate than today.

How to get my Ex back

If you’re asking yourself this question, keep it to yourself and keep reading. Your friends may just get fired up if you ask them how to get your ex back. Dealing with a conundrum can be very confusing. You must ensure that your feelings are in check before taking action.

IDAHOT: A Very Important LGBTQIA Day

If you’re a member of the LGBTQIA+ community who’s anti-oppression, you must learn about IDAHOT. It’s one of the most important days that not only celebrates members of the spectrum. It also empowers individuals to fight against society’s still rampant discriminatory ways.

The Facial Feminization Surgery FFS Guide

If you’re a transgender woman, you may have heard about facial feminization surgery (FFS). Others call it FFS surgery while some refer to it simply as FFS. No matter what you call it, it’s one of the most integral parts of surgical male-to-female transitioning. If you’re interested in facial feminization, keep reading.

Dating After Heartbreak Recovery

Everyone heals from heartbreak at some point in their lives. However, healing does not guarantee one’s confidence to try again. Some people get traumatized after a breakup and the healing process. This makes them avoid love altogether.