So you found this guy through an online dating site and go on your first date with him. By the end of the night, you’re sure that he’s up for a second date. But he doesn’t end up calling you and you wonder why. Did you say anything wrong? Was he really that into you?
Don’t fret, girl. If you want to figure out if a guy really likes you, here are 5 signs that will help you find out if he’s interested in you:
Because the latter like to emphasize their femininity, whereas many ciswomen no longer do so? Because men feel threatened by social changes or, on the contrary, they embrace the challenge of the traditional sex dichotomy? Or maybe because they simply “like women with dicks. I like tits and I like dicks… Something erotic about getting fucked by someone who is a woman.” (Men Who Have Sex with Transgender Women: Challenges to Category-based HIV Prevention)
Have you been dating a transsexual woman for a long time but she suddenly changed after cosmetic surgery or sexual reassignment surgery? To be honest, I think breast augmentation and SRS are both life-changing surgeries and I don’t want to speak for all transgender women out there but something has definitely changed in me for the first few months post my breast augmentation.
Let it be known that I was single when I had the surgery and this may not apply to your girlfriend. However, I also noticed this especially from seeing the posts from my transgender friends who just had theirs done as well.
Kindly take this article with a grain of salt.
New Year is a good moment to start anew and at the very beginning, so I thought it’d be good to clear up some basics about such complex issues as sex, gender identity, and sexual orientation.
First of all, they are separate, unrelated and completely different things. Of course, one’s feelings is far more complex than it can be described in a short article, and the following sentences should only serve as an approximation of the topic.
One’s biological SEX depends on the combination of their chromosomes, genitals, gonads and sex hormones. The binary nature of fertilization caused many cultures to believe that there are two sexes (males and females), but in reality, there are many ones in between (including intersex), depending on the particular combination of the abovementioned factors.
Today’s article will be a little more personal because I’m going to tackle what my fears are as a transgender woman in the world of transgender dating websites. Please know that everything I’m writing here will be from my sole experience and things may or may not apply to you. Don’t blame me if you find yourself wasting a minute or 2 because of this lol.
He might be into Post-Ops
Tranny Chaser is an offensive term coined to describe a person equivalent to a womanizer. In transgender dating, there’s a high possibility that your boyfriend started out fantasizing by porn and have seen a lot of things. There are only a few transgender women in the world and there’s a big percent that your man has never met one in person which urged him to discover the beauty of transgender women through paid cam sites and dedicated porn sites.
Evolution occurred and his hobby with his right hand (left if he’s different lol) turned to an experimental rampage on transgender dating websites and adult yellow pages.
Finally… he met YOU! The transgender woman of his dreams…
Dos and don’ts are not just exclusive to transgender dating but I want to be more in-depth about the DON’Ts section of the lottery we all call dating.
There are numerous factors as to why is it seemingly that when we try to get to know someone, things suddenly fall apart. Consider dating as an investment and every action and word you put out must be a seed for a lasting relationship to grow.
Please think before you act or say anything, and HARDLY. If you find anything you did/said from the DON’Ts in transgender dating below, then this might ring true to your situation.
Please also take everything with a grain of salt because I’m basing all of the examples from my life experiences as a transgender woman who has been in the trans dating game for years.
Things you DON’T Say
Users are everywhere. They can be in a form of family, friend, and a lover. You’re never really going to know what a person’s intentions are with you unless you know him/her for a good amount of time.
Today, I’m going to share some signs on whether the person you found from a transgender dating site is just using you.
I’m in no way a paragon of morality but and I think that I’m a bit 50/50 with this. I think this is acceptable if the set-up is like of a sugar daddy/sugar mommy-sugar baby kind but if this is the issue that’s being masked by love, then I think it’s not okay.
Today is not about finding a transgender date for you. It’s about what you can do and who you can meet apart from a life partner in a transgender dating website.
I know that it may sound uninteresting to you but please hear me out. I’ve met a lot of friends in dating websites and until now, we’re still great friends. Things may have not worked out for us but at the very least, I have people at my beck and call for keeps.
Other people in Transgender Dating Sites
There are perverts everywhere but I want to be specific and try to help you on how to determine if the guy who’s been messaging you in a transgender dating website just wants to get off on your expense. There’s nothing wrong about being sexually in touch with yourself but if you’re a transgender who’s looking for a real relationship, by all means, keep reading.
In my list are types of guys that I’ve encountered based on my life experiences. Take this with a grain of salt because this may or may not apply to you.