How to ask your transgender crush on a date

Posted on July 12, 2019
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As a former sex-worker and a transgender woman, I can get a little neurotic… well, paranoid, every time a guy asks me out on a date.  I always have the feeling of being only wanted for one thing and it usually includes a mattress… or a floor! Who knows what you’re into?  Alright Jacob, I’m not saying that I’m a prototype transgender woman when it comes to dating but I am a person with experiences and you may be able to get some key information from me and you’ll never know how much in common your crush and I have.

Let’s begin with the most vital part that can make or break your dream with your future transgender date


Qualities in Dating Transgender Women

Posted on June 28, 2019
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Today’s talk is about the qualities you must have in order to successfully date transgender women.  I’m not going to tackle superficial stuff like looks, salary, libido (although this is really something that I personally find important lol), and etc.  Moreover, I want to enlighten you about which qualities should be emphasized in order to make your relationship with your transgender date flourish and last.

Please take this with a grain of salt because some transwomen like me prefer the jerk and bad boy types so no matter how good of a catch you are, there are just some tastes that simply cannot be adjusted.

Let’s start with…


When to break up

Posted on June 14, 2019
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Not every relationship involves multiple persons. We should never neglect the relationship we have with ourselves if we truly want to achieve genuine happiness.  Today’s article will be less of transgender dating tips and more of when to break up with someone you’re not in love with anymore.

It’s safe to say that most of us have experienced a breakup and it sucks most of the time.  However, there are moments when enough is enough and we should just end things in order to keep our sanity.  I’m going to divide this article into 3 sections that may apply to what you’re currently going through which can help you to finally say YES… yes, I’m going to break up with you.


5 reasons why independent trans women are the best partners

Posted on May 31, 2019
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A common misconception about dating independent transgender women is that they are intimidating to date.  On the contrary, the best kind of woman is one that exudes confidence and knows what she wants for herself.  Dating an independent transgender woman is an exciting and amazing experience and I have listed down 5 reasons why independent trans women are the best partners.


HRT for Beginners

Posted on May 17, 2019
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Male to female hormone replacement therapy (M2F HRT) is a medical way of dealing with one’s gender dysphoria.  Its main goal is to successively alter the patient’s physical appearance, so it matches her gender identity.  The most visible effects of HRT concern changing the features that appear during puberty (these are called secondary sex characteristics), such as breast development and widening and rounding of the pelvis (if HRT is started early). These changes are irreversible, even if hormone therapy is terminated.  Others, such as feminine fat and muscle distribution, thinning of body hair, cessation of testosterone-triggered hair loss (and in some cases even regrowth of lost hair) as well as softening of skin are reversible and need constant hormone therapy to take effects.


5 Dating Myths For Plus-Sized Women – Debunked!

Posted on May 3, 2019
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“What if he thinks I’m too fat? Or what if he thinks I look better in pictures than I do in real life?” These were questions I was asking myself before heading out on my first date with someone I met online.

If you’ve been asking yourself these questions too, then honey, you’re in the right place.  You aren’t alone. In fact, many plus-sized transgender women ask themselves these questions because they’re nervous that the guy they’re dating won’t like them because of their size.

But, if you think that being overweight is a problem when it comes to dating, you’ve got it all wrong.  It’s not your weight that’s the problem, it’s your attitude towards yourself that’s making it a challenge.


Starting Over Again

Posted on April 19, 2019
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Have you finally healed from your last relationship? Are you thinking of signing up on a transgender dating website because you’re more than ready to find the love of your life?  If so, please keep reading.

I know how I sounded like a seedy infomercial but I just wanted to be extra corny so I can grab your attention.  Most people find transsexual dating websites, or any other dating website, gimmicky and superficial.  They often think that dating websites are for bored people who aren’t looking for something serious.  On the contrary, transgender dating websites have been proven to be the best tool to be utilized in terms of finding a life partner.

Hear me out…


Overcoming difficulties as a transgender woman

Posted on April 5, 2019
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This post will cover overcoming difficulties. It may be my most personal entry here for a long time to come.

A lot of transgender people struggle with being misgendered, harassed, misunderstood and laughed at.  They often suffer from neurosis, depression, various anxieties and fears, lack of self-confidence and low self-esteem.  They come up against ostracism, violence and various kinds of daily abuse.

All of this in the name of being born in a way most people are not.


5 signs that show he’s into you

Posted on March 22, 2019
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So you found this guy through an online dating site and go on your first date with him.  By the end of the night, you’re sure that he’s up for a second date.  But he doesn’t end up calling you and you wonder why.  Did you say anything wrong? Was he really that into you?

Don’t fret, girl. If you want to figure out if a guy really likes you, here are 5 signs that will help you find out if he’s interested in you:


Why are men attracted to transgender women?

Posted on March 8, 2019
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Because the latter like to emphasize their femininity, whereas many ciswomen no longer do so?  Because men feel threatened by social changes or, on the contrary, they embrace the challenge of the traditional sex dichotomy?  Or maybe because they simply “like women with dicks. I like tits and I like dicks…  Something erotic about getting fucked by someone who is a woman.” (Men Who Have Sex with Transgender Women: Challenges to Category-based HIV Prevention