Are you in an abusive relationship wherein you find yourself trapped? You badly want to escape but you’re finding a route that is more favorable to your heart’s desire? It’s good to be romantic and all but you have to know that life is not a fairytale waiting to happen. That person may change but are you sure that he/she will while he/she’s still with you? Or… have you ever thought of the possibility that he’s never going to change and your fairytale dream might just end up into a tragic headline?
Personally, I’ve experienced abuse too, mostly verbal and sexual, at a very young age. Most of us transgender woman often become preys because we have this notion that we are always grateful when somebody loves us and accepts us for who we are. At that time, I was enjoying transitioning at the expense of my ex-boyfriend. I was so thankful, to the point of doing absolutely everything for him. Little did I know, it cost me a lot more than it did him…
Anyway, that’s for another story. Today, I’m going to give you some scenarios that point towards the exit route. Don’t justify anything, just pack your bags and go.
