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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Just a random trans woman playing with makeup and skincare. Loves bacon and the operating table. I'm also the author of the dating guide book Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen. Know more ->

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What is a Conversion Therapy

Conversion therapy has been on and off in the news. The controversy that comes along with it affects people from all walks of life. To people who are against the LGBTQ+ community, it’s a blessing. For LGBTQ+ individuals, it’s an attack and a curse. To scientists, it’s debunked and passe. However, it’s still better to […]

What is Transgender Day of Remembrance? (TDOR)

Transgender Day of Remembrance also known as TDOR is a memorial day for transgender people who’ve been killed by the means of transgender hatred or prejudice held every November. Albeit not all victims have identified to be trans-oriented, they have been killed based on bigots’ biases against transgender individuals.

Why Transgender Women think You’re a Pervert

Are you a guy who is genuinely looking for love on a trans dating site? Are you puzzled as to why trans women can’t seem to see your genuine feelings and often describe you as a pervert? If you’re tired of being discounted and you want a transgender girlfriend, keep reading. Please know that this […]

The Beginner Trans Ally Guide

Everyone has experienced being a neophyte and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being one. Just your desire to be a trans ally alone is already a success and warrants a celebration. However, if you truly want to embody a trans ally and be more purposeful to transgender individuals, keep reading. This guide wasn’t created to […]

How to NOT be a Single Transgender Woman

Have you been a member of a trans dating site for a reasonable amount of time but you’re still a single transgender woman? Don’t worry, I’ve been single for 7 years and I’m going to share with you how I was able to break the curse. I’m assuming that you’re looking for a partner because […]

Planning a Transgender Wedding

Getting married is a common dream for most women whether they’re transgender or not. There are many types of weddings but today, we’re going to focus on how to plan a transgender wedding as a trans woman. Please know that this guide was not created to be divisive or to attack a certain group of […]

Do men Ghost you a lot?

The joy of the first greeting, the heartwarming early sweet nothings, and the dreamy potential future. Do you find yourself constantly experiencing the said things and never escaping the loop? Are men only interested in you in the beginning? Do men ghost you a lot? Today, you’re going to find out why you’re stuck in […]

Dating a Married Man

Trans dating is already complicated and even made more so when a trans woman decides to date a married man. Sometimes, love happens in the most obscure and volatile situations which result in infidelity. Today, I’m going to share with you my personal experiences with married men as a transgender woman. Please do not crucify […]

The International Pronouns Day

Once again, the International Pronouns Day is upon us. If this is something new to you, stick around because in this guide, you will be informed about everything that encompasses this empowering and inclusive day. Whether you’re part of the LGTBQ+ community or not, it’s important for you to know why the pronouns day is […]

The World’s Most LGBT friendly Countries

You may be thinking of traveling or you just want to escape from the toxicity against LGBT individuals in your country right now. No matter what your reason is, there’s always an answer, and today, you’re going to figure out the world’s most LGBT friendly countries. Please know that this guide was not created to […]